What you can do if you are feeling “Insignificant” in your relationship
It’s not always the case that only your partner feels ‘Insignificant’. Sometimes you might also feel like that. To enjoy a fun-filled, excited, passionate, and meaningful love relationship, you and your partner, both need to feel significant.
In this blog, we will discuss What options you have if you are feeling “Insignificant” in your relationship.
What you can do for yourself if you are feeling “Insignificant” in your relationship:
Things are not always what they seem. It might be possible that your partner is not doing anything wrong, but you are feeling ‘Insignificant’ due to miscommunication or misunderstanding. The very first step you need to take in such a case is – to think rationally if your partner is really doing something that is making you feel bad, or you are feeling bad because you are not in a good mood. That way you will be able to find the root cause of the issue. And knowing about the problem and its root cause is the first step to get rid of it.
Communicate with your Partner
It might be possible that your partner is too busy with some other stuff and can’t even imagine that you are going through a bad phase of your life until you tell them. So, the next step you can take is to tell your partner how you are feeling, instead of assuming that your partner should know about your problems.
Talk to your Friends
You can go out and talk to some of your good friends, hang out with them. It will help you come out of your bad mood.
You need to be careful here. Many extramarital affairs start when anyone feels bad in their love relationships and try to connect with their old friends. Since they have already been feeling a void, and they get someone (their friend) to listen to them or help them, they can easily get romantically attracted to their friend.
Take a break to do something you like
If your partner is not treating you well, you can treat yourself well. Remember, you and your life are Not Insignificant at all only because your relationship is not working. There are many other dimensions of life in which you can find your significance. This might be the best time to do something you are interested in, and let things get normal with time.
Consult a professional expert
This is another very important step you can take to keep yourself on track. Consulting an expert (a psychologist/counselor) is still taboo in India, but it can surely help you in taking you out of your current situation, and that can also save your relationship. So, if you think that things are going out of your control and you need some expert help, never hesitate to consult a professional expert.
It will be undoubtedly a tough time for anyone if they don’t feel ‘Significant’ in their relationship. Fighting negative emotions and painful thoughts; keeping themselves up and motivated; overcoming the feeling of frustration, worthlessness, and loneliness; finding their importance in their partner’s life… And many other challenges those people will need to face. If you find yourself in such a situation, you would need to put some serious efforts to get out of this shit. Some of them are mentioned above.
Visit this blog (Feeling ‘Insignificant’ in a Love Relationship) to know:
• Some of the major reasons why your partner may feel insignificant in a relationship with you?
• How they actually feel being insignificant in a relationship?
Visit this blog (How you can make your partner feel significant?) to know:
• How you can make your partner feel significant in their relationship with you?
This article is dedicated to “Your Significance”. Don’t make Yourself feel “Insignificant Other” of someone.
इस ब्लॉग को हिंदी में पढ़ने के लिए इस लिंक पर क्लिक करें: अगर आप अपने संबंधों में “महत्वहीन” महसूस कर रहे हों तो आप क्या कर सकते हैं